After a very interesting bus ride, including a border official who sternly questioned me about the "symbols" on my arm (huh? You mean my tattoo? It's a type of plant... How else do you explain a carnivorous plant tattoo to foreigners?) and an unceremonious bus change, I made it to the hostel in Mostar, which had been recommended by a fellow I met in Zadar.
Majda's Hostel turned out to be lovely, and I arrived just in time for Bosnian Coffee. I quickly made the aquaintance of an Aussie girl who had ridden the bus with me from Split, and a group of us from the hostel ventured into town for a quick tour followed by dinner. Along the way we picked up a couple girls who Adi, one of my hostel mates, had met previously, and got to know Tess and Eli. Tess is from San Francisco (finally, a fellow Californian who's not from SoCal!) and Eli has been traveling almost exactly the same amount of time that I have, which was so unbelievably heartwarming after so many months of the shocked face when I told people I'd been gone for eight months.
We had a great dinner and ended the evening with beers down by the river before heading homeward.
(Not my photo).
The next day I had signed up for the tour run by the hostel, so after a home cooked breakfast by Majda (she actually made me eggs and sausage, bless her) we hung out until noon when the tour was starting. As it turns out the tour is run by Majda's brother, who is a crazy high-energy guy determined to give us both a heavy dose of fun and also a heavy dose of recent history, told from the perspective of someone who actually lived it.
During the war, their entire family had to flee the country, because they have Muslim heritage. Never mind the fact that they aren't strictly religious or even practicing. They were lucky to even escape with their lives; Majda's brother literally got out by the skin of his teeth when a guy he knew from grade school (knew, but wasn't friends with, keep in mind) claimed, despite the danger to himself, that he was a Croat, one of them. He later escaped in an ambulance across the border and emigrated to Sweden.
Hearing stories like this make my personal problems seem about this big.
After ten years spent in Scandanavia and the UK, the family was able to return home, and to make ends meet opened a hostel out of their house. Majda was opposed at first (can you really blame her? You want me to open my house, my room, to strangers, after all we've been through?) but now she runs the place like a mother hen, taking care of all of us backpackers in with compassion and humor.
Even over twenty years later, a huge amount of the Bosnian population still lives abroad, because they have no homes or jobs to come back to. It absolutely breaks my heart.
I learned the history of the war from a local perspective. I learned that the Serbian and Croatian governments stil have a hand in local politics and are still trying to divide the people based on religion. If you look at the "Bosnian" side of Mostar, you still see bombed out buildings. If you look at the "Croat" side, you see new shopping malls. Genocide happened here, and the world just looked the other way. Our guide called it "world war III," and he wasn't exaggerating.
At what point do we not turn our cheeks? How do we help? Because I hate to say that this is still going on today across the globe. Everyone should have rights, but how do we fight for all of it? Where on earth do we start? When will we learn?
Our first stop was the waterfalls, where we got to swim, eat a lovely lunch, and drink beer and rakia.
Afterwards we went to a "medieval village," which for the record was just a village before the war, when the locals were forced out. Even now only three houses are inhabited, because nobody can afford to come back. There we had one of the best experiences of my trip so far. This lovely elderly woman invited us into her home, served us platters of dried and fresh fruit, cakes, and drinks made with her homemade syrups. Pomegranate syrup mixed with water is amazing and I must learn how to make it. I cannot thank her enough for that experience. Hvala.
Did I mention that my seat was a lawn chair in the back? I don't know how many safety codes were violated but it was amazing. 12 people in a 10 personal van, local style.
I refused to climb on the wall, to the amusement of my new friends. I'll ride in a van on a lawn chair in the trunk but I will not scale walls.
We finished up the tour at a whirling dervish house, where we were encouraged to take a drink out of the river and wish for something big, not just for ourselves but for all out brothers and sisters in this world. I wished for a little love for the world. It felt appropriate.
The most amazing rock face. Recent excavations have found truly ancient history there. Did you know Bosnia is 1,000 years old?
The biggest thing I learned is that Bosnians see the good, the positive, in everything. We could all learn something from their strength and resilience.
My last day in Mostar happened to be the local bridge diving competition. After lunch I made my way down to the "old bridge" (which was actually destroyed in the war - you can see videos of the destruction on YouTube and I encourage you to watch them) where I watched a bunch of crazy young men not only jump, but dive, off the bridge into the river below.
The cross on the hill. From this point snipers used to kill the locals during the war. The cross was erected later, which according to my new Bosnian aquaintances is a grave misuse of history, and I can't fault their feelings.
Getting ready for the jump.
He's actually diving. Oh dear god.
The next morning I got up at the crack of dawn to catch the train to Sarajevo, which is supposed to be one of the most beautiful train rides in the world. It is. But I will (shamefully) admit I fell into an exhausted sleep and missed the last hour or so.
We arrived in Sarajevo in the mid morning, and I made my way to the hostel on the tram. There I promptly passed out after a lunch of Burek and napped away the afternoon. I was woken up (briefly) once by my room mate, and Mexican guy named Chris who came to affectionately call me "gringa" during our time knowing each other. "Hey, gringa, can I turn on the air conditioning?"
The infection that I had in Croatia had since turned into a brutal cough, so one of my priorities was hitting up the local pharmacy for cough syrup, a minty concoction I came to hate in three days. I had no idea that cough syrup could get worse, but it did, as you will see in my next update.
In Sarajevo I met Tilo, an adorable German guy who promptly hooked up with the most beautiful South American girl (with the tiniest hands I've ever seen), beautiful inside and out. A group of us went out to the bars and hit a Bosnian "club" one night, then went on the walking tour the next day, which we ditched after an hour because our guide was the most unenthusiastic person I've ever met, a terrible combination with my inability to pay attention due to a combination of heat, lack of sleep, and alcohol consumption. We went for ice cream instead, then after wandering around got dinner delivered to the hostel for a night in. I'll never forget the Dutch girls, a group of three we went out with the previous night, and I will always think of them with "yes yes yes girl!" after their stories of a bad Dutch porno involving a elderly bicycle repairman and some nubile young Dutch girl speaking halting English. I will also never forget the lovely young African American girl I met at the hostel, who has been living abroad for years, who writes a blog and volunteers her way across the Balkans. Volunteers, because she believes it's the best way to get to know a people, a culture. I still need to find her blog, if for no other reason than to read about the "7 useful uses of sperm," which she researched, wrote about, and then was told by her father that he would never read her blog again after reading. I left Sarajevo with new friendships and memories, and gifted my cough syrup to Tilo who I deemed needed it more than I did before departure.
I spent one more night in Mostar with Majda before heading down to Kotor, Montenegro, where I spent two nights with nothing to note before continuing on my journey to Albania. A new country! A new adventure.
~Swan